Sunday, November 16, 2008

today ...

She would have been 37.

Does the grief ever end?

13 comments:

  1. ...care to share who she is...?

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  2. the grief will end if you want it to end...your choice

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  3. who'll be 37? is it you?
    somebody in your family?
    pasti ada hikmah disebaliknya...

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  4. is it your late friend suhaila's birthday today?

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  5. Anonymous9:56 AM

    Komen Pak Malim, kucing ray yg alim.

    Kadang saya rasa terlalu rindu terhadap orang yg dah meninggal tu, sampai saya nak telepon dia. Saya tahu orang mati tak boleh jawab telefon, tapi rindu. Faham? kata Pak Malim sambil menjual saham.

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  6. Lin,
    Arwah my best friend.
    She passed 7 years ago, right before Anis was born. I used her name as Anis's middle name.

    Ida,
    Ye lah kan. Maybe it's difficult to let go coz I didnt really see her when she passed.

    neeza,
    kawan baik. Yes segala ada hikmah.

    Aliya,
    bingo.

    PakMalim Kucing Ray yang Alim,
    Sebelum telefon saya kena curi, nombornya masih saya simpan, kata elisa mendayung sampan. Saya faham perasaan kamu, kata elisa sambil makan jamu.

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  7. let go Elisa, just remember the good ol' times..sometimes I do remember her as well; the vibrant her

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  8. I still like to remember the wonderful memories. It is sad but it makes me happy too for once our hearts were touched by someone so wonderful.

    pray for Jannatul Firdaus for her when you go for Hajj.

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  9. she is truly blessed to have you remembering her in your do'as.

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  10. salam dari saya ...semoga persiapan haji berjalan dengan sempurna.

    'dia' yang masih di ingatan elisa itu seorang yang terlalu baik, murni dan harmonis sewaktu hayatnya - yang membuat elisa masih terkenang.
    AlFatihah...

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  11. Ida,
    Sad to say (or maybe good to say) that I think of her less often than the first few years after she passed. Perhaps I am healing.

    Lolls,
    Indeed I will.. dah write down dah siapa dan apa yang nak di-doakan.. banyak sangat, takut lupa!

    nazrah,
    and I was blessed to have known her.

    Abe Id,
    Preparation is gitulah.. setakat mampu, and sentiasa rasa macam tak cukup, tak sempat, tak sempurna. I tell myself it's okay to do my best. Allah knows I am doing my best to please him. Allah knows.
    Thanx for your kind words. She was not perfect, but I loved her anyways.

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  12. Anonymous6:32 AM

    It's not wrong to remember the love ones...sedekahkanlah Al-Fatihah...itulah sebaik-baik ingatan buat yang hidup mahupun yang telah pergi

    Amin....

    Fred

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  13. my best friend passed away 3 years ago in a car accident. she was in a coma for a week, and by the time she passed on, it was so awful but i felt relieved.

    and not a day passes by that i dont think abt her and all the things i wish i could share with her.

    i dont think the grief will ever end.

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