Dear Miss Manners..

Dear Miss Manners,

I had a friend and she did something nice for me, and I had wanted to repay the kindness so I ordered something special for her.
Unfortunately, before the thing I ordered for her arrived, we had some sort of an argument and she has now stopped talking to me and no longer consider me a friend.
Do I still send her my thankyou gift, or should I just give it to someone else?

help me decide,
The Severed Friend.